The great failure of feminism is that it doesn't really tell women what to do with all that 'freedom' and 'equality'.
It hasn't really created a new woman, merely women who do what men used to do, which is make enough money and have enough mobility in society to take care of themselves.
Feminism hasn't changed how women actually raise children when they do, it suggests that child-rearing is just an arbitrary selection among many.
The revolution is in contraception, fertility and virility drugs, but feminism doesn't adequately modify our understanding to prescribe what to do with all that.
What works? Still the same old basic drives. Women want to be hot, men want hot women. Women want to be wanted by men who can get hot women (as opposed to men who want hot women but don't stand a chance). This is as it ever was, except that it has accellerated in this country to levels of public obsession and obscenity.