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Rush Limbaugh today said something about having been a husband he understands that husbands are always wrong. I note he's divorced.
The actual truth is contained in two principles. Both apply to husbands.
The first is from Robert Heinlein: "If you are ever in an argument with your wife and discover that you are in the right, apologize immediately."
The second is Pournelle's principal advice to husbands who want a long and successful marriage: Learn to grovel!
I could spend considerable time on why these principles work, and how they have their roots in evolutionary biology (or in the created nature of men and women if you prefer that), ....
Ann Þ says
Yah , but only if you are living with a spoiled American girl (not one of the 2 or 3 thousands exceptions that are adult) raised in Vaginistan.
That explain why real Yankee are going overseas to find a woman
‡ see Fred on everything for one of many bloggers that details the reasons